Under the new educational concept, parents should be encouraged to teach their children more frustration. When the child falls down, he can get himself up. This is a very important training process for the child. This strengthens the child's will Exercise your child's ability to overcome difficulties. Frustration education helps to stimulate children's potential. It is an educational method that is very beneficial to children's growth.

However, parents should also try to avoid negatively assessing their children. For example, when a child does not do something well, he shouts to the child: "Don't try again, try it again is useless," and "don't do it well." Such rude words as "How stupid is this? Others are already done" will strengthen the child's sense of self-confidence and failure. Parents may wish to adopt some positive affirmations. Such as "Although you have not succeeded, but I want to praise you, because you have the courage to try it is very good." "You must believe in yourself, Mom and Dad believe you can do. Frustration education should also pay attention to appropriate methods, parents Do not make the following two mistakes easily.

Mistake 1: Parents impose ideas on children

In open classes held in kindergartens, many children did not want to speak. Small hands occasionally raised one point and immediately lowered them. Then they turned to look at their faces. Many mothers are pulling their faces, frowning, and expecting their children to speak as quickly as possible, so the children have to reluctantly raise their hands.

First of all, parents must change their own ideas, do not impose their own thoughts on their children, give their children more choices, let him (her) do the things they like, and really stimulate the ability to resist frustration from the heart, know how to climb down how to climb stand up.

Mistake two: parents do not help the child to sum up the cause of the failure

In the baby talent competition held in the community, only three children finally won the award, and they smiled on the stage. There are no award-winning children in the audience who are silent and have serious facial expressions. We are also parents. Later, a girl whispered and whispered, and then all the unsuccessful children also cried. Faced with this situation, we can only comfort our children: "It does not matter. If you lose, you lose. The winning children have not performed well yet."

It is not a bad thing for a child to cry for the loss of the game. It is not only a spontaneous discharge of emotions, but also a manifestation of dominating and demanding performance. At this time parents can not tell the children "lose it, lose it, it does not matter", otherwise it will help him indifferent attitude, but should help him analyze the reasons for the failure, to recognize their own deficiencies in order to make the child have a harvest.

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